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A Different Story
30 minute video film made by Network member and documentary film-maker Liesel Evans £10 inc. p+p. Available in PAL (UK, NZ & Australia) and NTSC (US and Canada) format

  • Can you remember when you first learned about how you were conceived?
  • Do your friends know? What do they think about it?
  • Who's your Dad then? What's your relationship like with him?
  • How do you think your Dad feels?
  • Do you think about your donor? Would you like to know more about him?
  • Are you curious about half-siblings?
  • Are you pleased your parents told you about your origins?

Varied positive and thoughtful reflections are provided in answer to these questions by seven young people aged between seven and twenty years. All were conceived with the aid of anonymous donor insemination, and all were told the facts of their conception at an early age by their parents*.

The parents of the young people who appear do not include lesbian couples or single women.

Publications available from ...
Donor Conception Network PO Box 7471 Nottingham NG3 6ZR
(excluding Canada or USA*)

*Purchasers in Canada or USA
Please email the Canadian Infertility Network on Info@InfertilityNetwork.org for local prices and availability of all DCN publications.

Credit card facilities available.

Choosing to be Open About Donor Conception:
The Experiences of Parents by Sharon Pettle and Jan Burns
£6.50 including post and packing
 

This short book reports the conversations of 52 parents with children ranging from babies to teenagers - mums and dads, single parents and lesbian couples - who took part in a series of small groups to talk about their experiences and feelings about being open with their children, family and friends about donor conception.

Topics covered include:

  • influences on the decision to be open
  • thoughts about secrets
  • telling family and friends
  • handling professionals
  • dealing with remarks about resemblance
  • stages in telling children
  • thinking about schools and the longer term
  • reflecting on the whole experience
   
Simple story books for young children
  These four delightfully illustrated children's story books are designed for adults to read to young children from 3 years old and for children up to 6 years old to read themselves. They give clear explanations in a straightforward and sensitive way how children were conceived and became part of their family.
£6.50 each, including post and packing
  My Story - for children conceived by donor insemination (DI)
"Mummy and Daddy were very sad when no baby began to grow. Then the doctor said there was a way for them to have a baby. Some very kind men give their sperm so people like Mummy and Daddy can have a baby. At last Mummy and Daddy had a baby and that was me!"
  Our Story - for children conceived through egg donation
"Mummy and Daddy tried for a long time to have a baby. The doctor said we couldn't use Mummy's eggs, and this made Mummy and Daddy very sad. After many months our special baby was born. That baby was you!"
  Our Story - for children conceived by DI into single parent families
"One day I said 'Have I got a dad?' Then Mum told me all about how a hospital helped her to have a baby, even though she hadn't met the right person to be my dad. I am really proud my Mum could do this and I am proud of us and our family"
  Our Story - for children conceived by DI into lesbian parent families
"One day I said 'Have I got a dad?' Then my mums told me all about how a hospital helped them to have a baby - me! I am really happy my mums could do this and I am proud of us and our family."
   
Let Me Explain - a story about donor insemination by Jane T Schnitter
Written for children between 6 and 10 this illustrated 30 page book, published in the USA, takes a child's matter of fact view about her conception by DI, and her close connection to her one and only Dad. Text and pictures combine to create a reassuring message that this form of family building has produced a family where dad and daughter get silly together, fight, talk and play in a normal loving relationship, while the young girl understands the facts and implications of how she was conceived.
£12.50 including post and packing

Planning a Family Letter Leaflets - open letters from experienced parents to those just starting down the road of family creation

  • Letter from Bridget and Andrea to lesbian women
  • Letter from Walter to would-be DI Dads
  • Letter from Olivia to would-be DI Mums
  • Letter from Olivia to would-be DI Parents about 'Telling'
  • Letter from Emily to would-be single mothers
  • Letter from Rachel to would-be egg donation parents

Single copies are free (send an A4 size SAE saying which one you want) or they can be downloaded (click here).

   
Other recommended books appear on our members' library list.
 
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