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The
Donor Conception Network welcomes the Department of Health's consultation
on moves to change the arrangements for future donor assisted conception
treatment so that donors would no longer always be anonymous. This
raises complex issues that need to be considered carefully and a
period of open consultation with all concerned is important.
What
is the Donor Conception Network?
The
650 families in the network act as a self-help group to support
families with children conceived by donated gametes (eggs, sperm
or embryos) and those contemplating treatment, in considering the
longer term issues that may face them or their children as they
grow up. We have been in existence since 1993. Our members believe
that children need to grow up with the knowledge of how they were
conceived, and that secrecy over such an important issue as one's
origin is an insecure basis for a lasting and loving family relationship.
How
did anonymous donation arise?
When
donor (sperm) insemination started on an organised basis in the
1950's, it was assumed that all parties, the couple with the infertile
man, the donors and the doctors, would want to keep everything totally
secret, and that no one would ever know the truth.
How
have things changed?
Now
people are less embarrassed by infertility, and it is more usual
that parents expect to tell their children the facts about how they
were conceived. We have also learned from adoption practice how
disrespectful it is to people conceived in this way to conceal the
truth about their origins. In any event children conceived after
August 1991 will, when 18, be able to check with the Human Fertilisation
and Embryology Authority. DNA tests might also reveal that they
were not genetically related to both parents. A number of individuals
conceived in secret 30 to 50 years ago have found out the truth
and have been severely shocked, not so much by the revelation, but
by the fact that their parents misled them.
What
may our children feel?
Most of the children born as a result of donated gamete treatment
and now growing up will be unable to trace their donors since the
donors were given assurances that their identities would not be
revealed. Whilst as parents we seek to prepare our children for
life in this situation, it is unrealistic to expect that some people
conceived this way may not feel frustrated by the inability to trace
their origins. It is impossible to forecast how strong such feelings
may be, or for how many this issue will be at all important. Even
if this is not a major issue for most, it would be unwise to ignore
the possibility that it will be strongly felt by some. Looking forward
to an "information age" where individual human rights will be tested
both in courts and other contexts, it seems likely that the question
of access to origins information would need to be decided authoritatively
before long.
Will
donors still come forward?
Set against this is the need to maintain donor recruitment. If a
sudden change in policy led to a drastic fall in the number of donors
prepared to come forward, this would be undesirable. If the shortage
of sperm became so acute that those seeking treatment were willing
to risk being treated with sperm acquired through unregulated sources,
possibly from abroad, the whole purpose of the new regulation would
remain unfulfilled. The consultation (and, we may hope, the media
coverage) needs to approach the issue in a way that does not unduly
alarm or deter existing or potential donors from considering donation.
A
new climate?
In order to maintain appropriate levels of donor recruitment, a
climate needs to be encouraged in which gamete donation is seen
as an open, responsible and altruistic activity, where donors are
rewarded with esteem and recognition as well as appropriate compensation
for expenses incurred. This is already beginning to happen with
egg donation. It is important that donors understand that the decision
to donate will have an important impact on the people who receive
the donation, on anyone born as a result, as well as on the donors
themselves and their own families. Potential donors should be prepared
for and relaxed about the possibility of being contacted later in
life.
Why
not make it retrospective to cover all those already born?
There is an obvious potential clash between the claims of those
donors who were given assurances of anonymity and the claims of
those created by their donations to full information about their
origins. Very full careful consideration would be necessary before
any compulsory change could be made retrospective. It would at least
be desirable to put in place a system of voluntary registration
by past donors of their willingness to be contacted, or for certain
information about them to be released. In the meantime it is important
that origins data be carefully maintained and stored, so that if
individual donors became more willing to supply information, the
records would then be available.
20th
December 2001
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