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Waverley Guest House
425 Pasir Panjang Rd
Singapore
1 June 1955
Dear Mummy & Daddy
Many thanks for your letter dated 23 May - so sorry you hadn't received my letters but hope they've got to you by now. SiSi was delighted with her card & thanks you for your good wishes & present - letter enclosed.
Well, we're getting more used to life here now - though apparently since we've arrived it's been much hotter than usual & we've only had 2 short showers which is most unusual as it normally rains once a day. It's terrific while it lasts, but fortunately it's all over in about 1/2 an hour and then the sun comes out again to dry everything up! At least the paths & roads etc - there's plenty of green vegetation about & some very exotic flowering trees - saw some yesterday with great bunches of large, nasturtium like flowers in bright orange. However, apart from those and of course the palm trees, you could quite easily imagine you were in parts of England! We discovered a very nice little beach last Saturday, only we could only take the car so far as the road was so bad & so walked the rest of the way - & it did remind me of a narrow Devon lane with red earth & lush vegetation. The water was as clear as a bell & very shallow for a long way so Guy & Susan loved it. Susan really prefers the swimming pool I think, as she can "swim" in her tyre better but Guy loves the sea as he can go in & splash on his own, sit down etc. However, he will come in the pool if I hold him but he doesn't think too much of it when he gets well & truly splashed with folk jumping in all around him, & it gets so crowded at weekends. I want to join the Singapore swimming club, only it's 10 miles from here & they want an entrance fee of $34! However we'll have to see how things go.
I've more or less got into a routine here now - after early breakfast we sometimes walk into the village (about a mile) around 8am (when it's fairly cool) & buy our apples. bananas etc. then down onto "our" local beach (practically taken over by Mrs Holmes, her 2 yr old Jonathan, Guy & myself,and Susan up `til today when she has started school). Then back for Guy's rest at 11am, lunch at 1, beach again all afternoon (unless Peter's here when we go into Singapore or to the Alexandra beach (the nicer one) or the pool, back to tea for 5pm & then bath & bed for Guy while Susan & Christopher are very busy with their club until 7pm - then bed for them.
Guy, Susan & I have all got lovely & brown - Guy only wears little sunsuits or pants all the time except when it rains when I put a tee shirt on him as it's cooler then. I got him 4 little pairs of coloured pants in the native street off Raffles Place where everyone bargains for everything - 4 pairs for $1 - about 7d each. I also got 2 big towels for $2 each, instead of $3. They are Indian, white with broad dark red & blue stripes (the colours don't run). I wanted them for swimming,
I spent yesterday morning at Rowcroft Lines where 40 Base Workshops are, at the R.E.M.E.Officers Wives Guild - usual women's meeting chatter. However, the Lt Col's wife asked me to go, & called for me, so I thought I'd better. SiSi & Guy were very good - the latter went outside the hut while the meeting was on & explored a monsoon drain so you can guess what his white sun suit - & himself - looked like after that! However he's easily bathed & it's not a big garment to wash. We send clothes to the laundry here twice a week & they do it very well, especially starching & ironing, but of course things won't last very long the way they wash them - rubbing on a stone! However I find it quite enough just doing Guy's day to day things & Susan's & my undies.
We are keeping our eyes open for a bungalow on this side of the island, as it really is a nightmare driving through Singapore & Peter doesn't want that twice a day. Anyway the Holmes are hoping to move into a quarter in the middle of next month, so we have arranged to move down into their rooms if we're still here, as that will be much nicer, with our own verandahs, 2 bathrooms & much more privacy. Where we are now, upstairs, it's like one huge room with the bedrooms round the edges, then easy chairs & settees etc. in a smaller ring, so to speak, forming a "lounge" & inside that, another "ring" of dining tables, so of course there's quite a lot of disturbance for Guy & Susan in the evenings, as the other folk are all childless (except the Holmes downstairs) which makes things a bit difficult when Guy is feeling in one of those moods! He's cutting his two bottom eye teeth now, so really he's very good & there's not a lot of screaming, but occasionally....! It's a good job we have the beach to go to as of course he's always full of high spirits & energy around 2pm when all the others (except Mrs H with Jonathan) are asleep!
How are you getting on with all these strikes? Has it affected your food supplies? Do hope not. Poor old Eden - what a headache to get straight after the election. Very glad they won. Neither Peter nor I had a vote - but they managed without us. The papers here seemed quite pleased the Tories had won. The troubles here seem to have simmered down for the time being - apparently it was quite nasty before we arrived for a day or two. We've had orders to have a case packed in case of emergency, & have been "billetted" on an Army family in a quarter if it should be necessary to be evacuated to a protected area, but I think it looks like another case of making all the plans after the need is over - anyway we'll hope so. Of course it's Communist trouble once again.
Sorry the Neilsons' house was too dear for the Davies. It would have been nice for you to have had them near you - or would that have been too near? I must say the price seems a bit hot. Hope Pauline `s lucky in finding a house - is Linda going to a private school? How does that tie up with the Communist ideals? I'm sorry Linda has to wear a bar on her teeth - poor little soul, I sympathise with her heartily. So sorry too. to hear of Mr Simpson's new op. & hope he'll soon get over this one & be really fit again then. How are you getting on with your new golfing partner, Daddy? Peter played tennis last Sunday tea time & enjoyed it. We're hoping to go & watch some cricket soon - they play quite a lot here.Glad you like the Broadstone ground & hope you'll get some nice days to watch it. Wish we could send you some of our sun!
So glad the garden is going well - I envy you the pears etc. The vegetables here aren't nice, mostly dried peas, beans etc. Occasionally we get some `runner' beans but there's no flavour, or in the cauliflower. When catering for oneself apparently, everyone buys Birds Eye frozen vegetables all the time! Of course, you can buy all the English & American groceries here.
We are hoping to go in this afternoon, to see about my Identity Card (I have to have one within a month of arriving) & also to join the big public library (Susan too) Then if there's time, I'm going to get myself some shorts for paddling with Guy, & on the beach.
SiSi enjoyed her birthday I think. She liked shopping for your presents in the morning & having an ice cream sundae, then a visit to the swimming pool in the afternoon. She & Christopher had tea together. "Cookie" (Fong), the manager here provided some iced cakes so she was happy. Guy loves playing with his Chinese children (he has 8 or 9!) He's taught them to say "Hello Mama", so I expect they're teaching him Chinese! If you can't find Guy you always know where to look!
Peter's mac has arrived, thank you.
I think that's all the news at the moment.
Lots of love to you both & Aunties. Joan

The Waverley
1.6.55
Dear Chris & Edith
Firstly I must apologise for not replying to your recent letter, between the two of us we have mislaid it & thus I cannot reply to individual points.
I have received my mac safely thanks to your efficient forwarding; would you please send 3/6d to R.T.O. Liverpool & Lancashire area, Lime Street Station, Liverpool & reimburse yourself out of the proceeds of the pram. Also thank you for sending on that last letter by air mail.
I hope your lawn has settled down nicely by now & that you are better pleased with it than you were with the front.
Our little Fiat is going very nicely at the moment if a bit cramped in the hot weather. The comprehensive insurance which we acquired with the car runs out in October so we shall dispose of it before then and replace it with either a Renault 750 or Volkswagen.
We are both taking a little time to get used to the climate and in my case working in a galvanised iron hangar from 8-5 does not help.
With love from us all to you both
Peter.





Waverley Guest House
Pasir Panjang Rd
Singapore
7 June 1955
Dear Mummy & Daddy
Many thanks for your two welcome letters dated 31 may & 3 June, & thank you for letting me know about the P.O. insurance money. Many thanks too to Aunties for their presents to Susan - it was very kind of them. Susan now has 1 dollar a week pocket money, & out of that she has to buy her own ice lollies (at school or from the equivalent of the old pre-war "Wall-ey" man on a bicycle who cycles past the beach in the afternoons), sweets etc. Christopher has the same amount & Mrs Holmes & I are hoping to teach the two of them a little about the value of money & managing their `income'. As far as I can see at the moment, they live in `luxury' for the first half of the week & have a rather thin time at the end, but I think it's good training, don't you?
I was surprised to hear that Aunties A & H are considering moving into a flat - if they do, I should think it would be a good thing for them with not so much garden & housework - of course what they really want is a small flat each in the same block.
You seem to have been having a pretty bad time with all these strikes - what a mess for poor old Eden to clear up! If & when the dockers & railwaymen see sense & go back, do you think it would be possible to send the cot out or would it cost an awful lot? It doesn't look as if we shall be getting a quarter for a year at least & as things are getting a little difficult here, we shall probably do some serious bungalow -hunting. Of course, it will be a lot more expensive than living here, but the Holmes ( who have nice rooms, apart from everyone else downstairs) will not be going until the middle of August or September & I really don't feel I can stay where we are `til then. The trouble is that no-one else upstairs has children, & some of these miserable females with nothing else to do all day except sleep if they want to, object to Guy chatting away (not shrieking or crying) as I play quietly with him as soon as he wakes about 6.30. most of the husbands are getting up at that time anyway, so they've already been disturbed. The atmosphere at times is very like that at the Cottage with the Allens! So far I've kept my temper, but if I have any more complaints about Guy playing near a .... school mistress when she has her breakfast & I find him 20 yards away quietly climbing up & down a short flight of stairs on his own, I shan't be too dumbfounded to reply next time! Her comment to the manager just after was "I'm sick of children, I have them all morning" Some schoolmistress eh? Having got that off my chest, I'll stop grumbling & change the subject. Don't worry, I'm not letting it get me down & I go out most of the day on the beach.
Guy & Susan are as brown as berries - I think this sea air suits them here. It certainly is much pleasanter here than right in Singapore during this heat wave - some-one who'd been here for 25 years told peter today he'd never known it so hot as it has been these last 3 weeks! The water is really quite hot in the afternoon for paddling & the dry sand is absolutely burning. Mrs Holmes & I & the children have the beach to ourselves, except for a few odd Malays seeing to their nets & boats, or crab hunting. The women wade into the water right up to their seats, with all their flowing saris etc. on. It must be horrible to have it all dripping around them when they come out, because they don't seem to change it. They all wash under the taps by the roadside with their clothes on (except the small children) then they come & wash the clothes there, in cold water, & rub & bang the clothes on the wet stones around. They seem to use soap but nothing like Tide! Our clothes are apparently washed in the same way so as you can see, they won't last long with that treatment! All the village women & children are very friendly - Chinese & Malay, & the older Malay men & Indians (lots of Sikhs here - appalling drivers of taxis!) Even the old labourer types of Malay have quite a dignity but you don't get the same feeling about the male youngsters & they're not nearly so friendly & pleasant- & that applies to the young male Chinese too- except of course, if you are a customer in their shop! We've got the hang of the money now & I can even bargain in it!
Last Sunday morning we went to the Singapore Car Club's Hill climb which was quite near although in a part we hadn't explored before, & enjoyed it. Came back early of course for Guy's sleep. Tomorrow as it is the Queen's birthday, we're hoping to go & have a look at Johore Bahru across the causeway in the afternoon & then find a beach near. We haven `t been able to let SiSi have swimming lessons yet as she can only have those at the Singapore swimming club, which we're still humming & hawing about joining, in view of the distance from here & the high cost.
Now to your questions
1. We can live at the Waverley easily on our allowance (including laundry)
2. Yes, I do Guy's washing & our undies - we have one line the residents can use & of course, we hang our woollens out in the sun very frequently.
3. Yes, Susan finishes school at 12.30 & is home just after 1. She has about 1/4 hours homework after lunch & then comes on the beach or out in the car if Peter's here (on Wednesday afternoons, when we usually go into Singapore to do shopping).
4. Yes, I've ordered her school frocks from the school & they measured her today. They're bright green tobralco with a white collar.
Do hope A Ethel enjoyed her stay with you & that you've been able to get your holiday settled - don't let Aunties A & H go on dithering about the flat too long or else go without them.
I think the taste in the food is something to do with the oil or margarine they fry the food in - we have an awful lot of fried stuff. We've come to the conclusion that the worst meals are the ones which are ( or supposed to be) most English. No meal tastes as it does at home, even fillet steak. Recently we've had some much nicer chicken, & one night some pheasant, which although not `high' was very nice. The fried scampi (prawns) are quite nice, & prawn & pineapple & baked ham & pineapple also. The vegetables are the worst, & the puddings aren't too good as far as Guy is concerned, so he has a Heinz tin quite often. I think it `s high time he had a more suitable diet though. He eats very little dinner ( though seems to love all sorts of soups) which is often perhaps just as well. However, touch wood he's a sturdy little chap, full of energy. He has his milk & an egg for breakfast each day, so I don't suppose he does too badly.
Thurs
It's been a holiday today for the Queen's birthday so we went to have a look at Johore Bahru, just across the causeway this afternoon. Noy much of a place except for a very nice road running by the side of the shore on the west coast of Johore, with wide grass verges & beds of flowers, & then a lovely sandy beach & clean water so Guy & Susan bathed in company with lots of other Europeans. We didn't go much farther up the road afterwards as it left the coast then & apparently 10-15 miles up you are liable to run into terrorists.
I really must stop now, so many thanks for your letters - & I'm sorry I never thanked you for the telegram to SiSi at Liverpool just as we left - it did please her & us all - thank you very much
Lots of love Joan


Waverley Guest house
425 Pasir Panjang rd
Singapore
21 June 1955
Dear Mummy & Daddy
Many thanks for the packet of letters you forwarded to us by sea-mail, Daddy and also for Susan's letter, which needless to say, delighted her. She has been in bed these last 3 days unfortunately with a touch of what they call `kampong fever' - temperature, headache etc & usually the patients are very sick & the high temperature lasts several days but fortunately Susan has only felt sick one day & her temp is normal now & she's been out today. Like the Holmes' children, she's having a lot of trouble with infected mosquito bite (she scratches them you see) & she's had penicillin & aureomycin ointment, & now the doctor has given her gentian violet to paint on - the trouble is, fresh places keep starting. The joys of the Tropics! However, I hope they'll soon clear up now. Poor old SiSi - she always was a target for all the mosquitos around, wasn't she?
Things are a little better here now - Guy & I have moved into another room which has its own bathroom & is much more private, & Susan & Peter have gone into my old room which was much nicer than their old one, & bigger - it's not as nice as downstairs, of course, where we're going when the Holmes move - if we're still here but its an improvement. We've looked at 3 bungalows & one house - only one bungalow was possible and that isn't vacant for 2 months. The house is very nice & empty now, but I don't think we shall be able to afford it - very nice position - garden runs down to the sea!
Through Esther Holmes I've made 2 friends living locally & have been invited with her to go to coffee on 2 mornings so that will make a change. They both have bungalows near the local village. One has a little girl 3 months younger than Guy & she & Jonathan & Guy play together very well on the beach when she comes down. Peter is playing tennis with the husband on Sunday if we get back in time. The owner of this boarding house is apparently very wealthy & has a large yacht ( holds 100). He has arranged a picnic to one of the neighbouring islands for us all on Sunday (free!), so we thought we'd go, even if Guy has to have a nap on my lap, as I'd like to see these islands very much & it would cost a lot to hire a boat & go on our own. So we'll hope it's a fine day - we've been having a lot more rain recently & last Sunday it was very wet all day & quite cool. I had to put a vest on & Guy wore a tee shirt all day!
So glad your strikes are over & hope you won't have any more troubles like that. We had a small general strike, no buses among other things, here last week. Army T.U.Cs with an armed guard came to fetch the children to school, Peter had to go off 2 evenings til 1 am & we had to have a case packed ( we have been allotted a billet in case of trouble ). There was a curfew all the week & warnings not to go into Asian parts of the town, but fortunately it all petered out & we're back to normal now, touch wood. There must be quite a lot of Communists here.
I'm having 2 dresses made from the material I bought for Guy's sleeping suits, for Susan & a pair of shorts from the local tailor for myself (navy drill). They're the best wear for the beach. I also got some Japanese aertex stuff on the village market today for him to make me a shirt - 80 cents a yard. I've washed it first to prevent it shrinking after it's made up! Apparently several people have found it's cheaper to send home for morning frocks form Marks & Spencers than get them here! However I thought I'd get some more stuff from the market & get it made up & then compare costs! I rather enjoy shopping in the village. They all seem very much alike - about 3 tailors, 2 photographers, 4 native `general stores', one general store obviously for the local Europeans & the inevitable coffee houses - open fronted cafes, which have loud speakers fixed outside so that the who;le village is filled with their odd, but somehow fascinating music - it certainly grows on one. Most of the men seem to eat in these coffee houses as there are no means of cooking in their little shacks & the other members of the family seem to feed from the wares of the hawkers who are always coming by on bicycles - one with rice, another with tiny fish, queer fried things & what look like white rolls on which they smear some red stuff - with a stick! There don't seem to be many middle class or wealthy Malays or Indians here - only the Chinese seem to have the money!
Had a letter from Bettina this week - she likes her new job in Ilford except for the companions & gets £9 a week!
Guy's little Chinese friends here belong to "cookie" (Mr Fong the manager who has 8 or 9 children!) They live in the servant's quarters building, along the side of the hotel. It's only quite small & has a large kitchen in it too so it's amazing what a small amount of living space these Chinese seem to need (except of course the very wealthy with their palatial homes). Also in the building live 2 of the "house boys" & the cook & cook boy! Our "boy" is called Chu - Guy calls him Chu-a - & the others are Wong & Tong.
Peter has decided not to have the Lancia sent out after all, in view of the fact that he would be charged an additional £70 before it could be landed here as it `s a foreign (not British) car! So thanks for your bright idea about putting the cot in the car, but I'm afraid that's kiboshed it. If it wouldn't be too expensive to send out I think it might be a good idea, as if we have the bungalow that was quite nice, we should have to get a bed of some sort for Guy as there's only one double & one single there. We did answer an advert in the local paper for a second hand one for £5 but it had gone.
Susan was so pleased to hear how well her seeds have done - I'm sure the whole garden looks delightful now with a lot of the herbaceous plants coming out. Have you managed to get your holiday fixed up now Aunties have decided to stay put at Ravine Rd? So glad Peggy likes Rhodesia - my, living is certainly cheap out there compared to here.
Lots of love to you both & many thanks for your letters. So sorry to hear about A Ethel's cough - hope you're having some hot weather by now to help a bit. What is the matter with Betty's foot?
Lots of love Joan


Waverley Guest House
425 Pasir Panjang Rd
Singapore
28 June 1955
Dear Mummy & Daddy
Many thanks for your very welcome letter received last thursday - pretty good going as you posted it on Sunday, wasn't it? Thanks for your sympathy - as a matter of fact I soon decided that people like that really weren't worth getting worked up about & decided to ignore them! After that treatment for a little while they've evidently decided not to be so childish & now the atmosphere is much more pleasant. The trouble is these women haven't anything to do all day - they dress about 11am ( if they're not going shopping in Singapore) & then sit around gossiping & drinking tea or coffee! Even the schoolmistress only has to work in the mornings of course. She's not at Susan's school fortunately.
Yes, don't worry about the ice cream - we only let her get it from the Singapore Cold Storage firm - a very big & reputable one here; they're also very big grocers, butchers, fishmongers, dairymen etc. etc. & have lovely milk bars in the city - we usually patronise them when we're in Singapore, & they sell ices at the school & go by the beach.
You asked about pineapple at meals - it's cooked a little with the ham, but raw with the prawns - they add cucumber to that dish - very nice too. We had pheasant again tonight - but you wouldn't know it was after the English variety. Yes, I think it would be better for both Guy & Susan as regards meals if we had our own home. Guy doesn't eat nearly as much as he used to, but I suppose he doesn't need as much in this heat. I thought you had to take salt because of the excess sweating - that's what we were instructed to do on the Empire Clyde.
Se sorry A Ethel didn't have a better week as regards weather - a nice dry warm summer would do her a world of good. What a good thing it's been better while A Ivy & U Herbert & the children are at Aunties - I expect they loved it on the beach.
Susan has all boys for companions at the moment, but seems to get on well with them. Two of them have small boats & they all have great fun in those (it's perfectly safe - don't worry), One of them, David, lives opposite - he has a very wealthy Chinese stepfather - 3 amahs to wait on him. He's a very nice child though, & we all feel sorry for him as he's left to his own devices all day & every day - his mother (Irish) & stepfather haven't any time for him apparently. He's going to Blundells in September. Touch wood, Susan has got over her bout of "kampong fever" & her infected mosquito bites are clear too, thank goodness. It has been a job healing them - we've had to buy aureomycin ointment (Army dispensary hadn't any!!) but it was worth it. Now she mustn't scratch any more! I forgot to mention before that she had a medical exam at school the other week. I went & she was pronounced quite O.K. - sight all right & nothing wrong with her chest when I mentioned her coughing bouts last winter, so that was nice to know. Certainly the sea air suits Susan.
So glad you've been over to the Moirs & enjoyed your evening & that you've all decided on your holiday. Scotland sounds a good choice as you can take the car by train to Perth, so there won't be too much driving. Mind you all go for some walks too - not all motoring as it really is glorious country to walk in. Have you planned your itinerary yet? Or are you going without booking in advance?
We had a most enjoyable day last Sunday. The owner of this hotel has a 4 berth cabin cruiser & every so often he lets his "guests" have it for a picnic to see one of the nearby islands. So we & the Holmes & 3 or 4 others from here set off at 9am, on a glorious day - not too much sun (although of course you can be badly burned through cloud here, but Esther Holmes & I & the children have been hardened by our spells on the beach & we were quite O.K. although the others suffered if they sat out unprotected). There was loads of food & drink laid on, with Chu, one of the "boys" to look after us, & "Cooky" the manager too, as well as the Kebuns (gardeners) for rowing the dinghy. We anchored off a real "tropic Isle" - you know, silver sand, palm trees & clear, warm water & we, the adults,all had a swim from the boat & then after lunch on board we went to the island for the children to bathe - SiSi & Guy loved it & so did I. We all did some fishing from the boat too & caught sundry small fish. We came back about 3, after a very enjoyable day.
I'm glad we had the opportunity to go then as it may not come again for a long time - Peter suddenly had it broken to him last weekend that he is being posted to Kuala Lumpur - he goes this Sunday! He is to be O.C. of a L.A.D. (Light Aid Detachment) which is something he hoped to get, but we didn't want another move so soon. However, there it is. We (the children & I) will stay here until Peter has found somewhere suitable for us in K.L. & he'll come back at weekends. He's driving the car up, but we shall go up by train (air-conditioned fortunately) travelling up overnight, starting at 7.30 pm & arriving the next morning. Guy will be quite a seasoned traveller soon, won't he? Peter thinks he'll be in this job about a year - heaven knows where we'll go then - I'd like Hong Kong - may as well see it all whilst we're here!
I had an unpleasant experience the other day - Esther Holmes & I were taking Jonathan & Guy into Singapore by bus to have their hair cut, & while we were waiting for the connection (you have to get 2 buses) we were standing just outside the bus shelter as it was rather crowded, when suddenly Guy (whom I was carrying) twisted round, I lost my balance & we both fell backwards into the monsoon drain, which unfortunately of course had to be about a yd. deep & half full of filthy water & rubbish - like a sewer in fact! Fortunately, apart from a bruised backside & grazed arm there was no hurt to either of us, but of course it was a horrid sensation & we were filthy & dripping when Esther helped me out. I thought it was awfully kind - we were in an entirely Malayan quarter, with lots of little shops & cafes, & the owner of one came over to us at once & offered "water" & led Guy & me to the back of his little cafe where the communal tap was. He handed me a large bucket of clean water. So I washed Guy down as well as I could & dried him on my hanky (rather wet although it was in my handbag) & then when I'd stripped his dirty pants & tee shirt off, someone said "He'll be cold`" & they presented me with a clean tee shirt & romper thing, pointing to a small Malay child asleep in a chair. I put them on Guy & thanked them very much - they wouldn't take anything so I promised to return the clothes very soon, which I have done as soon as I'd washed & ironed them. They got me a taxi then & I thought it was very kind indeed of them, don't you? As soon as we got in we both had a Dettol bath & hair wash & as it was only 10am, set off again - this time without mishap! These drains run along all the streets, but often in Singapore itself they're covered by a grill, & round here they're much narrower & shallower & practically dry - I had to pick the worst I've seen!
Thank you for trying to find my driving licence. I must write to the Surrey Motor tax people for a duplicate.
Lots of love to you both & Aunties & hope you're all well. Will let you know what's happening as soon as we can.
Love Joan



Waverley Guest House
425 Pasir Panjang Rd
Singapore
4 July 1955
Dear Mummy & Daddy
Many thanks for your letter sent to Peter - it's a good idea being able to send them for 21/2d - can you send them to me for that amount too?
Peter went off yesterday morning by road to Kuala Lumpur - complete with revolver & ammo which had been issued to him, so I hope he got on all right. He says he's going to spend every evening looking for somewhere for us to stay! This will have to be a short note as I am dependent on Laurie Holmes posting it for me (forces rate) & he goes to Bangkok tomorrow for a week on a conference. So poor Esther & I will be a couple of grass widows!
I wrote to U Arthur last night - had a very nice letter from him offering to send us food but told him that there isn't much in that line that you can't get here - if you pay for it - after thanking him very much, of course. It's expensive to send a letter to him, even forces rate - well over a dollar (2/4d)
So glad Glenys & Martin are getting on well though sorry about Mrs Davies. I will try & send Glenys a line soon, but although I know no-one at home will believe me, we really don't seem to have any spare time free from looking after children except after dinner, & then by by 9pm both Esther & I find ourselves nodding in our chairs! You really do need an afternoon rest out here, but that's impossible at the moment of course. I'm afraid this is an odd letter - I'm trying to write it on the beach while keeping an eye on Jonathan & Guy while Esther has gone to the P.O. The former is an imp of mischief & a `real boy', & where he leads Guy follows - or tries to. Also of course they have not learnt the art of sharing!
The garden sounds lovely - I wish we could see it. Susan was pleased to hear how well her seeds have done. I want to get a photo of Guy & Susan soon & send it to you.
Peter & I went to the pictures last week! A Mrs Howarth here, who has just come, much older than us, offered to "sit in' & so we risked it & went to see `The Country Girl' with Grace Kelly. A very good film too. Of course all the cinemas are air conditioned here - so much so that unlike England, you feel like putting a jersey on when you go in & removing it when you come out, even at 9pm! Guy apparently woke about 8, & Mrs H sang all her stock of nursey rhymes over & over, & in the end he just gave her a long look, turned over & went back to sleep again, she said! So much for her singing. Still. we were very grateful to her & she didn't seem to mind.
Susan seems to have got thinner but the M.O. says she's quite O.K. He says children of her age do tend to `bolt' out here but yet doesn't matter - he seemed to think thinness an asset. She was out all yesterday morning with David & Christopher fishing - digging for worms first. However, they didn't catch anything so came back a bit dejected. Guy loves the water & "swims" by lying stretched out on the sand & working himself along on his hands. He's going to miss the beach a lot in K.L.
I have had Susan's frocks back now & he's made them awfully well - also an odd skirt for me from a remnant of Ferguson cotton I bought here - grey ground with mid blue streaks & bright clear yellow tulips (?) over it - quite gay for a skirt. The ready made dresses here are expensive - £5 & up for anything in a decent cotton which is really all that's worth buying in view of the washing. To have a frock made costs from 12-14 dollars for a day frock - about 30/- roughly, & then cotton, English make is $2 up ( I paid $2 80 cents for my skirt stuff ), so you can see it's not all that cheap to have a frock made. Next summer I might be glad of a few cheap cottons if you can see them, from M & S or elsewhere, or if you saw a cheap one in the sales now I'd be glad. Thank you. I can send you a cheque by Peter to pay for it. I don't want anything larger than a 38" bust & not done up to the neck if possible. But don't go specially - it's only if you saw a bargain. SiSi is fitted up now & Guy only wears pants & occasionally a tee shirt, both of which you can get very easily & cheaply here. He's got some delightful little American pants, white with 1/4d size spots in red, blue & green & he does look cute in them.
So glad you were able to watch the tennis - do you think you'll be having a television in the winter now you like it?
Have you & Aunties fixed up the holiday yet? I do want to know you're going.
Thank you for seeing about the cot - it would be a blessing. At the moment Guy is sleeping with me in a double bed which isn't a very good thing.
Apples we get at 6 for a dollar - or 7-8 if we go to Change Alley in Singapore & bargain with the stall holders. English biscuits here here are from 80-90 cents a 1/2lb packet ( 100 cents to a dollar ) I hope apples will soon be cheaper for you, but you made my mouth water with the strawberries! We've had lychees here - an indescribable flavour, white in colour ( you peel off that reddish outside, rather like a conker case ) but quite nice.
Really must stop now - am finishing this back at the Waverley. A storm came up & we had to beat it pretty quickly - you don't get much warning & my word, doesn't it come down. We've only been caught once & we were literally soaked through & dripping to the skin in not more than 2 minutes! However , after a hairwash, rub down & dry clothes we were quite O.K. It's warm rain, that's one thing,
Lots of love to you all & do hope you & all the family are well.

Joan


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